What's in a Name...Again!

We cannot, yes, CANNOT decide on a name for Little Miss! I say cannot, I mean it! Oh my goodness, it's driving me crrrraaazzzyyyy!!!!!
When I was pregnant with the triplets, Tim and I had no problem coming up with three girl names and three boy names and the moment we found out it was three girls (for sure) they each had the most perfect names for our family, even before the sonogram was over. After the girls were born, I thought I knew exactly what I would name another girl, if we were so blessed to have one, but now I have no idea and everything I come up with, sounds good for a day and then it just doesn't seem fit for her or our family.

Here our my issues:

1. I want something traditional but not too uncommon. I'm not a fan of super modern names. I picture this little girl as a little girl, a 16 year old, a CEO of a company, a grandmother...all with a name and what it would be like for her at every age and stage of life.
2. We might change our last name. Long story, but since we don't have any contact, nor want any contact with Tim's biological father, Tim came up with the idea to use his mother's maiden name, since it will not go on to another generation, since his PopPop had all daughters too (five daughters....girls run in his family...shocker, right?!?!). It's something we have been thinking a lot about and praying over to see if it's the right thing for us. So the name has to sound ok with Gaydos, if we keep it, or Steinert, if we choose to change it before the girls go to Kindergarten. I won't change it once the girls learn their "full name" because I don't want to confuse them. (Personally, I would love to change it because my initials would be the same as I have always had, H.S....but I am leaving the decision up to Tim and I support him either way.)

3. Tim hates everything I come up with but hasn't come up with the perfect name to offer to the table! He likes names with nicknames and we already agreed awhile ago not to do that. He currently like Allison, and call her Allie, or Abigail and call her Abbey.

4. Since we have a "Natalee", I don't really want to name any future daughters with the ending of "lee/leigh". Silly, maybe but oh well. For example, I love Emily, but I don't like the "lee" ending, but I hate Emma (the number one name in 2011 so far). I keep coming up with "lee" ending names that I like, but if I go with anything "lee" ending, I might as well go with Emily!

5. Since we are very firm about Madelynn being a Madelynn, and NEVER a Maddy (Tim thinks Maddy is a dogs name, and we have a few friends with dogs named Maddy), we don't want to name another baby with anything that has a nickname. For example, we love Abigail, but I know I would call her Abbey and I don't want Madelynn wondering why she can't be called Maddy when she a teenager, if Abigail can be an Abbey. Maybe silly again, but I don't care! Tim loves Abbey and Allie for Allison. We always say and still continue to think that if Madelynn ever has a nickaname, it will be Lynn, since Tim loves that name and it's my middle name.

6. I love the name Caroline and was almost positive that would be the name of Little Miss but I don't want two children with the same first letter initial. I silly too, right!

7. It has to "fit" our family. I don't want Madelynn, Claire, Natalee and some super modern name that doesn't "fit". It needs to be something a little older and more mature and not something "made-up", like so many horrible names are these days!

8. And just like I said when we were coming up with names for the girls, I want something that sounds nice when I'm yelling for them across a crowded swimming pool or gym when they are playing basketball! I always cringe when I'm somewhere and I hear some horrible name of a child, and I just think about the poor kid growing up with such a terrible name and what those crazy parent's were thinking!

9. I want our children to always know that each of them are a special gift from God and we took time and effort to put a lot of thought into the perfect name for them. If God chose them specifically for our family, we want a name that is specifically for them and what God sees fit for them.

So.....names I like and are still considering (no real order):
1. Emily ("lee" issues...but still my number one)
2. Abigail (nickname issue, but still my number two)
3. Avery (a little more modern than I would like, but for soem reason it draws to me)
4. Caroline (same first initial issue, still close to number three at this time)
5. Leah (loved at first, but not anymore)
6. Savannah (Tim hates and says it's too southern, but I still love it)
7. Ava
8. Samantha (if we change our last name to Steinert, than two of the same initials..a no no)
9. Anna (Tim likes this)
10. Sydney
11. Allison (this is Tim's current favorite)
12. Lindsey
13. Sofie/Sofia
14. Makayla (first initial issue)
15. Julia
16. Julianne

Middle name that I want, pretty sure of at this time: Kate or Katherine. I think Kate is super cute, but may be a little more modern with some names than I would like. Katherine goes well with most of my names I like too though. I love Emily Kate, but I like Abigail Katherine too! But I would not like Makayla Kate or Allison Kate..for obvious reasons...it sounds horrible.

I also love Grace for a middle name, but I wouldn't want to use it if we keep our "G" last name, because I don't want two of the same initials, like Ava Grace Gaydos - AGG or Makayla Grace Gaydos - MGG. No way, even though I think both sound really nice!

So, can anyone help me out here.... What do you like? Little Miss needs a name!!!!